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i am ready to accept her but i am saying will there be complications from her side?
Her side will have the same thoughts as yours... that whether a pure-brahmin is suitable for their daughter?

Unless both the families discuss this issue with open mind, you guys will face issues later on. Once you settle into your daily lives, after the honeymoon period is over (1~2 years), you'll start finding issues in each other. All you need is a shrewd relative from either side, to sow the seeds of hatred.

But in any case, even if ends in a divorce, love marriage is far better than an arranged one.

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You believe in caste. That makes u a racist. Please spare the poor girl. She deserves someone better who can accept her as a life partner, a human, a friend .. and does not see her as Rajput.

Yes. There will be complications. Soon she will realise what a racist pig u are .. and u won't be able to handle that.

Lol .. marry someone whom ur mom choses. U will find happiness in her.
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If both of you are of same caste, it is similar to "like poles". If you both of you are of different caste, then it is "opposite poles". The proverb is "Like poles repel each other, while opposite poles attract each other!". Therefore the present choice is better !

There may be some minor problems in the begining stages. You cannot back out fearing for those minor problems. That way in every marriage there are some minor problems. Once you withstand and solve those problems, you will gain self confidence and that will help you for the rest of your married life !

If you expect expect everything to be smooth, and later when minor problem arises you will be frustrated. The fact that you are raising this question, it shows that you are cautious ! It is a better approach ! This way you will not be frustrated ! When the problem arises, I am sure, you will take that as a challenge and you will solve it !

Wish you Good Luck and have a Happy married life !

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Dude, Caste, Religion, Color, Age has nothing to do with COMPATIBILITY. Find out if you two are compatible, if you share common hobbies, likes, dislikes, habits. Find out if you accept this girl with all her perfections, imperfections for the rest of your life. Ask yourself will you still lover her when she farts in bed, when she doesn't flush properly, when you find her hair in your comb, when she gets her periods and gets mood swings, when she gets fat during pregnancy. If the answer is yes to all those then yes, she is good for you because you would love her no matter what. Talk to her, become her friend because it's your and her life.

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Dont pollute your bloodline. As a brahman dont you feel ashamed to even think of giving up your dharmic line for the sake of a woman of lower birth? If you contemplate association with lower women better give up your brahman identity.

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Dude, Caste, Religion, Color, Age has nothing to do with COMPATIBILITY. Find out if you two are compatible, if you share common hobbies, likes, dislikes, habits. Find out if you accept this girl with all her perfections, imperfections for the rest of your life. Ask yourself will you still lover her when she farts in bed, when she doesn't flush properly, when you find her hair in your comb, when she gets her periods and gets mood swings, when she gets fat during pregnancy. If the answer is yes to all those then yes, she is good for you because you would love her no matter what. Talk to her, become her friend because it's your and her life.
thank you brother. that's maturity. thanks once again
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If both of you are of same caste, it is similar to "like poles". If you both of you are of different caste, then it is "opposite poles". The proverb is "Like poles repel each other, while opposite poles attract each other!". Therefore the present choice is better !

There may be some minor problems in the begining stages. You cannot back out fearing for those minor problems. That way in every marriage there are some minor problems. Once you withstand and solve those problems, you will gain self confidence and that will help you for the rest of your married life !

If you expect expect everything to be smooth, and later when minor problem arises you will be frustrated. The fact that you are raising this question, it shows that you are cautious ! It is a better approach ! This way you will not be frustrated ! When the problem arises, I am sure, you will take that as a challenge and you will solve it !

Wish you Good Luck and have a Happy married life !
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Being politically correct aside : look for all the little things that could bring you in a uncomfortable situation. Being a Rajput - she's probably non-vegetarian you I presume are not. Same will go for the families - at social functions it'll be sacrilege for the Brahmins to see meat and liquor flow - Most rajput weddings have them in abundance. Rajput's by nature are a jovial loud lot and will have lot of noises made at any family gathering / functions. What you may find to be a loud tone of speaking will be a normal one for them. You may feel all these things inconsequential now - but when it comes to going through these situations - It'll matter.

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Why are you looking for life decisions on Xossip...Youtube comments section would be a better place to get life altering answers
Since you both like each other and both sides parents are happy, just go with it. Why bother?!?!

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Ask yourself will you still lover her when she farts in bed, when she doesn't flush properly, when you find her hair in your comb, when she gets her periods and gets mood swings, when she gets fat during pregnancy.
If she doesn't flush, then you should be running far away from that mahila

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