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Life is not about sex.

Sex is only part of your life.
If there was no sex, you would've been here. LOL

Your life started with sex... sex is life!

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If there was no sex, you would've been here. LOL

Your life started with sex... sex is life!
That is why it is part of your life.
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That is why it is part of your life.
read the OP again... sex is a part of life and it is diminishing for him. It's not like he is riding his wife 24x7.

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I am going to share my experience about the same, and expect people not to make fun out of it, as it can be the situation with so many of us.



It depends on various factors man.

Sometimes you don't have time to think about sex and the same happens with your partner.
Sometimes you just don't want it. It's all about mood. Again the same applies to your partner.

Even more difficult situations comes is, when your partner is not too keen about having sex, though he or she enjoys it when it happens. It's like, sex is just not their things.

Now a days, these smart phones and similar gadgets, being active on social platforms to make their presence feel also makes the person super busy or away from even thinking about sex.

Or may be just you have watched too much porn, and your imaginations went ahead of what the actual scene is.

Similar is the case with me. I am very keen about sex. I like it a lot. Like seriously, A LOT. But my wife isn't too keen about it. She loves when it happens, but at other times she just becomes very angry if I touch her boobs just like that.
I also had watched too much of porn, and expected a lot from my partner. She wants to experiment, but ends up having just a missionary sex, though that's so good.

Now this has taken a bad turn. I am looking out for sex. I lurk at almost every girl out there who I feel looks sexy, exposes sexy part of their body like sleeveless arms, bust area and all.

It's gone to such an extent, that I feel like having sex with my office colleagues who are very sexy, though they are so good friends of mine. I keep on looking at pics of my college girls, some of my relatives such as my sis in law and masturbate quite often. I have also met couples and girls outside, and backed out every time due to the love for my wife.


Now for you:

Either don't think too much about it, or else talk to your wife for it. Try to spend time with her, and don't think about sex all the time. There are many other ways to reach to sex such as spending quite quality time in each other's arms, talk about both of you, about your bodies. Love her, caress her, else it can be late

Hope you are able to make out today

PS: Masturbating is totally okay in marriages. Enjoy it alone, not too often, when you need it too much and your partner is not in a mood.
I also want toto share my experience. Five months before I got married, and my wife was to shy about sex before marriage now we reside two other places due to my job I try to do phone sex but she will do with interest but she is not very keen at doing sex but when I dosaw she will enjoy it. Whenever I go once in 3 months we will do sex daily and I have tried all good postions missionary,doggy and cowgirl as well. She enjoys phone sex very nicely and will say words like main randi ki tarah chudwa rahi hun or, something like I am your chuddakad. But while doing sexbowling I have to take manforce tablet to stay long because I have tried without taking and doing sex my penis doesn't erect and goes limb and small even my wife will give nice blowjob then also it will not erect. I watch lot of porn and enjoyI masturbation more than sex.

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I also want toto share my experience. Five months before I got married, and my wife was to shy about sex before marriage now we reside two other places due to my job I try to do phone sex but she will do with interest but she is not very keen at doing sex but when I dosaw she will enjoy it. Whenever I go once in 3 months we will do sex daily and I have tried all good postions missionary,doggy and cowgirl as well. She enjoys phone sex very nicely and will say words like main randi ki tarah chudwa rahi hun or, something like I am your chuddakad. But while doing sexbowling I have to take manforce tablet to stay long because I have tried without taking and doing sex my penis doesn't erect and goes limb and small even my wife will give nice blowjob then also it will not erect. I watch lot of porn and enjoyI masturbation more than sex.
Few weeks after regular sex I too had same problem of dick not staying hard for long I consulted a doc who is my relative too. He suggested me to give a day gap between sex n told me to stop masterbating if I am doing it ( which I use to do daily n denied in front of him ). U too try it my problem is over now I fuk for 15 -20 min without going limp
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It is all in our mind set, whenever we were expecting something in so eager once you got that thing after a few days later we got used to it like a routine things, sex is also the same thing. After certain ages both women and men, we do have our expectations of our marriage and the sex life. Sex is life or sex is a part of life it all depends on how well your partner is in the bed and how good he makes you in the bed. And how romantic both are in the daily life, itís been almost six years of marriage we do have ups and downs in our sexual life. But we do have other options too like role-plays or teasing each others. Before marriage it was fun in teasing of each other but after marriage comes the reality our 1st night we both were planned lots of things to try but in reality we both were tired to the core and we did our 1st time on 3rd day. And some 5 to 6 months in our early marriage life it was good sex life, then comes the reality we both feel something lagging, for me itís a routine play for him erection problem, we checked with our family doctor, she told me donít do regular like every day give time may be 1 r 2day gap, we took her advice now we are good in our sexual life too. But one condition we avoided masturbation and monthly or 2 months once we have one weekend for ourselves, me him n sex alone, and instead of masturbation it is replaced by blowjob, hand job, teasing was a good things to spicy things in sexual life. Some may say bringing another person in sexual life can spicy things up between wife and husband, if you have trust worthy friend only then you can bring them in to it. Otherwise according to me itís not a wise decision to go ahead with the plan.
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Nowadasy most couples are under financial stress and also expenses of bringing up kids is too much. Stress is reason for not doing it often. i will give one idea. Surprise wife in the daytime when the kids are in school by coming early from office. maybe around 12 noon. Take her out for shopping and buy her sexy underclothes like bra and thong type panties etc. Wont cost much. Take her out in a crowded bus or train and rub urself behind her. Make sure ur kids go to extra classes in the evenings and then u know what to do. most of all keep ur financial health good. if u have no money or less money no woman will give chance to u and wife tho will keep nagging and insult u all the time.

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read the OP again... sex is a part of life and it is diminishing for him. It's not like he is riding his wife 24x7.

Yes. Correct. That is normal.
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Yes. Correct. That is normal.
That is not normal. There are people who had regular sex throughout their lives.

Male sex organs keep working but with less fizzle during the senior years. Females go dud in couple of years only. That's why male actors never go out of frame, be it bollywood or hollywood. Testosterone!

So, OP's concern is valid as his family jewels keep on churning sperms, whether he is tired or not. His testes don't find an outlet and it becomes difficult to control the accumulated testosterone. But after sometime, his brain will tone down the testosterone production.

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Nowadasy most couples are under financial stress and also expenses of bringing up kids is too much. Stress is reason for not doing it often. i will give one idea. Surprise wife in the daytime when the kids are in school by coming early from office. maybe around 12 noon. Take her out for shopping and buy her sexy underclothes like bra and thong type panties etc. Wont cost much. Take her out in a crowded bus or train and rub urself behind her. Make sure ur kids go to extra classes in the evenings and then u know what to do. most of all keep ur financial health good. if u have no money or less money no woman will give chance to u and wife tho will keep nagging and insult u all the time.

Your suggestions were so good till buying sexy clothes for her. But after that, rub her in public transportation??? Are you serious?

She is wife, not some slut or pros waiting at the corner of street. Respect her, and she co-operates, understands you and have fun.
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